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Will the real Eli Newberger
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| Will the real Eli Newberger
please stand up! Will the real Eli Newberger please stand up. Is he Eli Newberger, the man who separates innocent men and women from their children based on false allegations of some sexual crime: for example, by branding as a sexual abuser a father who bathed his daughter with a pink sponge? Or is he the Great Pretender who speaks in this book of principles and safeguards in bringing up males to become good men? Here, he rails against his father, reveals his mother's continuing mental illness, resents having to be the parent of his siblings, and laments being less than he should have been as a fat kid. Perhaps this background explains why in his male adulthood he appears to hate men, to revile mothers (particularly single-mother households), and to have no remorse in separating innocent children from their innocent parents. With no loyalty, he seems to have no boundaries: he tells of his cousin's acts of vandalism and with tongue in cheek, excuses them as acts of righteous civil disobedience; he loiters on the Internet, and with self-piety, plays off the Internet chatroom messages of mothers bespeaking of their children's sins and sanctimony. Yes, the author Eli Newberger is an Internet junkie. This reader wonders which face he is wearing when he is online: the Eli Newberger who believes washing your child with a pink sponge is sexual abuse, or the Eli Newberger who had a sorrowful childhood and had to prove that he grew to such a stature that he was omniscient and could tell anyone who would listen how to bring up male children. As if they couldn't become men without Newberger's pomposity! |
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