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RESPONSE TO THE 1/28/99 LETTER YOU RECEIVED ABOUT YOUR I MAY BE SENDING THIS TO THE WRONG ADDRESS, BUT PLEASE POST MY RESPONSE OR FORWARD IT THE LADY WHO SEEMS TO HAVE A RATHER INCOMPLETE PICTURE OF HOW THE LEGAL SYSTEM OPERATES FROM THE SIDE OF THE ACCUSED. FIRST OF ALL, THANK YOU FOR HAVING SUCH A WEBSITE! IN THE WAKE OF NATIONAL HESTERIA ON CHILD SEXUAL ABUSE AND THE CURRENT WITCHHUNT CURRENTLY GOING ON IN THE LEGAL SYSTEM, I APPALUDE ANY EFFORT OUT THERE TO TRY TO MAKE THIS TYPE OF CHARGE A LEVEL PLAYING FIELD....ONE THAT DOES SEE THE GUILTY PUNISHED, AND ONE THAT PUTS THE ACCUSED IN A POSITION TO DEFEND THEMSELF, WITHOUT A PRESUMPTION OF GUILT AND PREJUDICE SOLELY BECAUSE OF THE CHARGES FILED. FIRST OF ALL, I HAVE NOW BEEN FALSELY ACCUSED OF CHILD MOLESTATION NOT ONCE, BUT TWICE,...AND I AM DAMN SICK OF HAVING TO DEFEND MYSELF AGAINST CHARGES THAT HAVE NO CREDIBILITY AND WERE MERELY LEVIED AS A MEANS OF VENGENCE. THE FIRST CASE OCCURED BACK IN 1982 WHEN MY EX-WIFE ALLEGED I HAD MOLESTED MY THEN 3 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER. NO CHARGES WERE EVER FORMALLY MADE AGAINST ME BY THE POLICE, BUT IT WAS A LIVING HELL AND I AM STILL GOING THROUGH IT. TO THIS DAY, I HAVE NOT BEEN ABLE TO HAVE ANY CONTACT WITH MY DAUGHTER....OVER 15 YEARS NOW! THIS WAS A CLASSIC EXAMPLE OF S.A.I.D. SYNDROME, WHOSE GOAL WAS TO PREVENT MY GAINING CUSTODY AND IN FACT TO ELIMINATE ANY FORM OF FUTURE CONTACT WITH MY DAUGHTER. THEY SUCCEEDED !!! THIS IS MY STORY: FIRST, MY EX-WIFE FILED A FALSE POLICE REPORT ALLEGING MY DAUGHTER MADE STATEMENTS TO THE ORDER THAT "DADDY HAS A PEANUT" AND "I GOT A GINA"; THAT THEY HAD OBSERVED MY DAUGHTER BANGING ON HER VAGINA; THAT SHE WAS SCARED TO DEATH OF ME; THAT SHE SAID "DADDY TICKLED MY GINA" AND A HOST OF OTHER TOTALLY FABRICATED STATEMENTS, ALL COLLABORATED BY HER 7 MEMBER FAMILY. THEY OBTAINED A RESTRAINING ORDER ON ME AND THEN TOOK HER TO AN MFCC WHO SPECIALIZED IN SKREWING MEN OVER, I MEAN SEXUAL ABUSE ALLEGATIONS. THIS BITCH SPENT LESS THAN A HALF HOUR QUESTIONING MY DAUGHTER AND CAME UP WITH A BRILLIANT DECLARATION STATING THAT I HAD AT LEAST FONDLED HER VAGINA, ORALLY COPULATED HER, AND MASTERBATED IN HER PRESENCE! NOTE THE WORDS "AT LEAST"! IN THE TWO YEARS THIS TOOK TO GET TO COURT, MY EX AND HER FAMILY MADE OVER 18 INCINUATIONS ONLY EXCLUDING MURDER AND DRUG USE!!! (I GUESS THEY COULDN'T FIND A SUITABLE DEAD BODY THEY COULD USE). THIS IS HOW IT WENT.....THEY CAME UP WITH A GRIZZLEY ALLEGATION, I'D DISPROVE IT AND SO FORTH. I WENT THROUGH 4 ATTORNEYS WHO REFUSED TO DO THEIR JOB AND GET DOWN IN THE DIRT AND FIGHT THIS 300 LB SLEASEY SCUM MY EX HIRED....INSTEAD I FOUND THE INCOMPETENT, THE ETHICAL, AND THE NAIVE ATTORNEY WHO WOULDN'T SPEND THE TIME OR PREPARATION REQUIRED TO DEVELOP A DEFENSE......SO, I ENDED UP REPRESENTING MYSELF AT THE HEARING. MY EX EVEN ENLISTED THE HELP OF NEIGHBORS AND DAYCARE PEOPLE TO TESTIFY AGAINST ME, EVEN THOUGH THEY BARELY KNEW ME AT ALL AND HAD NEVER OBSERVED ANYTHING AT ALL. I WILL CUT TO THE CHASE AND BULLET POINT WHAT I WENT THROUGH, THE EVIDENCE, AND THE OUTCOME. * $37,000 SPENT ATTEMPTING TO ENFORCE MY VISITATION RIGHTS, ALL IN VAIN. * I FLUCTUATED BETWEEN WANTING TO COMMIT SUICIDE, WANTING TO COMMIT HOMICIDE, AND WANTING TO KIDNAP MY DAUGHTER ON A DAILY BASIS, WITH NO LETUP FOR OVER 5 YEARS, UNTIL I COULD CONTROL IT. I WAS VERY CLOSE TO BECOMING AN ALCHOHOLIC, CONSUMING ABOUT 2 BOTTLES OF RUM PER WEEK. I WENT THROUGH A CHAPTER 7 BANKRUPTCY, LOST 4 PROPERTIES TO FORECLOSURE WITH OVER $100,000 IN EQUITY, I LIVED IN AN OLD BEATUP CAMPING TRAILER FOR 3 YEARS, I COULD NOT FUNCTION IN ANY KIND OF JOB AND WAS LUCKY TO FIND SHORT TEMPORARY JOBS. IT GOT SO BAD I HAD TO SNEAK INTO THE RV-STORAGE LOT IN ORDER TO AVOID SLEEPING ON THE STREET AND GET OUT AGAIN BEFORE THEY OPENED THE GATE. I EVEN RAN OUT OF PROPANE, AND HAD NOTHING TO EAT BUT CANNED VEGETABLES. I WROTE MY DAUGHTER UNDELIVERABLE LETTERS EVERY NIGHT FOR A YEAR (AND THEN I JUST COULDN'T TAKE IT EMOTIONALLY ANY MORE),AS A SORT OF SELF THEREPY AND DID VOLUNTEER WORK . JUST WHEN I THOUGHT NOTHING COULD POSSIBLY GET WORSE, MY TRUCK GOT STOLEN WITHOUT ANY INSURANCE! I HAD TO SPONGE OFF OF EVERYONE! IT WAS 8 YEARS LATER BEFORE I COULD EVEN SAY I HAD THE ABILITY TO HANDLE IT. * AT THE TIME OF THE ORIGINAL ALLEGATIONS, I TOOK AND PASSED A POLYGRAPH. THE POLICE IMMEDIATELY DROPPED THE COMPLAINT AND NO CHARGES WERE EVER FILED AGAINST ME. THERE WAS NEVER ANY EVIDENCE AT ALL, (BUT STILL HER ATTORNEY KEPT PRESSING THE D.A. TO CHARGE ME), EXCEPT THIS MFCC (MALADJUSTED FAMILY CRIMINAL COLLABORATOR) . BY THE TIME IT WAS OVER, I HAD TAKEN AND PASSED A TOTAL OF 7 LIE DETECTION TESTS INCLUDING POLYGRAPHS, VOICE STRESS TESTS, AND MEDICAL HYPNOSIS. * IT TOOK 9 MONTHS FOR US TO GET MY DAUGHTER EXAMINED BY AN EXPERT OF OUR CHOOSING. 3 SESSIONS WERE DONE AND TAPED WITH TRANSCRIPTS DONE. THE FORENSIC PSYCHOLOGIST WAS A PAST PRESIDENT OF THE AMERICAN PSYCHOLOGICAL ASSOCIATION OF CALIFORNIA. MY DAUGHTER TOTALLY DENIED EVERYTHING THAT MY EX HAD STATED . DENIALS WERE CONSISTENT OVER ALL THREE SESSIONS. UP UNTIL THE FIRST SESSION, THIS MFCC HAD DECLARED REPEATEDLY THAT "MY DAUGHTER WOULD BE TOTALLY AND FOREVER DEVASTATED IF SHE EVER LAID EYES ON ME AGAIN"!!! AS I PREDICTED, SHE RAN RIGHT INTO MY ARMS.....AFTER NOT EVEN SEEING ME FOR 9 MONTHS! ( WE HUGGED FOR ABOUT 2 MINUTES, AND THE COURT INVESTIGATOR BEHIND THE ONE-WAY MIRROR WROTE ME UP FOR "EXCESSIVE PHYSICAL CONTACT"! * I WAS GIVEN AN MMPI TEST AND THE INVESTIGATOR TALKED TO VARIOUS PEOPLE AND RELATIVES AND DEVELOPED THE RESPONSES INTO A PEDIPHILE PROFILE AND BECAUSE OF THIS, HE STATED THAT HE THOUGHT I WAS PROBABLY GUILTY. MY FATHER STATED HE DIDN'T KISS ME ANYMORE, SO "I WAS EMOTIONALLY DISTANCED FROM MY FATHER" FOR EXAMPLE! * A MEDICAL EXAM, IN THE MIDDLE OF THE HEARING ADMITTED THAT THERE WAS NOTHING AT ALL TO THE ALLEGATIONS. * MY EX AND 4 MEMBERS OF HER IMMEDIATE FAMILY WERE GOING THROUGH OR HAD PRIOR GONE THROUGH PSYCHOLOGICAL TREATMENT, FOR PARANOIA, SCHETZAFRENIA, ETC.....AND MY EX STATED SHE SAW GHOSTS ON A DAILY BASIS....EVEN THE INVESTIGATOR SAID "SHE HAS PERCEPTUAL DISTORTIONS OF REALITY"! OF COURSE, THIS WAS ALL IRRELEVANT TO THE JUDGE AS TO CREDIBILITY. * THE TAPES AND TRANSCRIPTS COULD LITERALLY MAKE YOU CRY AND THEY WERE NEVER ADMISSED INTO EVIDENCE. KNOW WHY? MY DAMN PSYCHOLOGIST WAS STILL OWED $400 BY ME, SO HE GOT UP ON THE STAND AND REFUSED TO VALIDATE THE TAPES AND TRANSCRIPTS HE PERSONALLY DID AND TAPED! (RIGHT AFTER HE HAD LUNCH WITH THE OPPOSING ATTORNEY). * IT ENDED IN A "DRAW", WITH EACH OF US REQUIRED TO GO THROUGH COUNSELING, AND I WAS GIVEN VISITATION RIGHTS. TROUBLE WAS I LOST PHYSICAL AND LEGAL CUSTODY AND I WAS GIVEN A VISITATION ORDER I COULD NEVER ENFORCE. MY EX MOVED OUT OF THE AREA AND THAT WAS THAT. * IT TOOK ME THREE YEARS TO PURCHASE THE TRANSCRIPT, BUT I DID EXTRACT SOME SATISFACTION: I GOT MY EX-WIFE'S ATTORNEY PERMANENTLY DISBARRED FROM EVER PRACTICING LAW AGAIN IN CALIFORNIA; I GOT THE COURT INVESTIGATOR'S LICENSE; I GOT THE MFCC'S LICENSE! (I HAD MY STUPID EX ACTUALLY FINGER HER OWN ATTORNEY ON PERJURY!) NOW, 15 YEARS LATER AND AFTER 8 YEARS OF RE-MARRIAGE AND RAISING TWO STEP- DAUGHTERS, HERE I GO AGAIN!!! MY 16 YEAR OLD STEP-DAUGHTER GOT MAD AT ME FOR NOT ALLOWING HER TO SEE HER FRIEND, WHO IS A VERY BAD INFLUENCE. THEY ALSO WANTED TO LIVE TOGETHER. BOTH GIRLS ARE SIMILAR IN THEIR MENTAL ABILITY. OUR DAUGHTER IS 16, MENTALLY RETARDED WITH AN IQ OF 45. IN ADDITION, SHE HAS ATTENTION DEFICIT DISORDER, AND IS DEVELOPMENTALLY DELAYED. THE OTHER GIRL IS SIMILAR, EXCEPT THAT SHE WAS SEXUALLY ABUSED BY HER FATHER 10 YEARS EARLIER (KNOWLEDGE, EXPERIENCE, ETC. OF THE COURT SYSTEM AND HOW TO GET PEOPLE IN TROUBLE!). SHE IS THE ONE WHO PUT THIS CRAP IN OUR DAUGHTER'S HEAD AND HAD HER STATE SHE WAS MOLESTED TO THE COPS. DUE TO HER MENTAL AND DEXTERITY DEFICIENCIES SHE HAS ASKED ME TO SHAVE HER UNDERARMS AND LEGS ON OCCASION. THE COPS HAD MY STEP-DAUGHTER MAKE "A PRETEXT CALL" TO ME SAYING THAT I HAD TOUCHED HER PRIVATES. AT THE TIME, I THOUGHT I MIGHT HAVE TOUCHED HER BREAST WHILE SHAVING HER, SO I SIMPLY APOLOGISED. THE COPS ARE ASSUMING THIS IS A CONFESSION OF "INTENTIONALLY" TOUCHING HER AND THAT THE SHAVING IS JUST A SHAM. 3 YEARS OF DIARIES SHOW SHE ASKED ME TO SHAVE HER (SOMETIMES SHE ALSO ASKED HER MOTHER TO SHAVE HER, SHE JUST PREFERRED ME MOST OF THE TIME). THERE IS NOT EVEN ONE REFERENCE SAYING SHE WAS UPSET ABOUT ME FOR ANYTHING! A MEDICAL EXAM PROVES I DID NOT DIGITALLY PENETRATE HER, BUT I AM ALSO BEING CHARGED WITH THAT TOO. HER FRIEND IS CHARGING ME WITH KISSING HER ON THE CHEEK AND LICKING HER ON THE NECK WHILE I SUPPOSEDLY PARKED WITH HER AT A SCHOOL ON THE WAY HOME! ALTOGETHER, I AM FACING TRIAL ON 6 FELONY COUNTS!!! MOST OF THE CHARGES ALLEGE A 2 YEAR TIME PERIOD FOR OCCURANCE, NOT ANYTHING SPECIFIC. THERE HAVE NOW BEEN 3 DIFFERENT STORIES WITH MULTIPLE INCONSISTENCIES AND 2 RECANTS (WHICH OF COURSE THE CPS AND POLICE REFUSE TO ACCEPT, BASED ON THE "CHILD SEXUAL ABUSE ACCOMODATION SYNDROME".....A SYNDROME NEVER INTENDED FOR DIAGNOSIS, AND ONE NOT WELL ACCEPTED BY THE PROFESSION! THIS SYNDROME HAS AN ANSWER FOR EVERY POSSIBLE DEFENSE THAT CAN BE USED ON A 288 ALLEGATION!!! INCONSISTENCY, RECANTING, ETC. DON'T MEAN THAT THE KID IS ALL WET! WHAT ELSE DOES A PERSON HAVE TO FORM A DEFENSE WITH????! MEGAN'S LAW AND THE MONDALE ACT REQUIRE LIFELONG REGISTRATION AS A SEX OFFENDER, IF YOU EVEN GET FOUND GUILTY ON A MISDEMEANOR! A DRUG DEALER CAN GET PAROLED, A MURDERER SET FREE, BUT HUG A CHILD AND YOU'RE A REGISTERED SEX OFFENDER FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE, WITH ALL OF THE RESULTING CONSEQUENCES.....PLUS, JUST TRY AND GET PAROLED. WHAT REALLY MAKES MY BLOOD BOIL IS THE FACT THAT ALL IT TAKES IS AN ACCUSATION,....NO PHYSICAL PROOF OF ANY KIND.....YOU DON'T HAVE TO MAKE THE ELEMENTS OF THE CRIME SPECIFIC, THE PERSON CAN'T DROP THE CHARGES AND RECANT, YOU DON'T HAVE TO TOUCH THE CHILD IN A SEXUAL PORTION OF THEIR BODY, YOU ARE PRESUMED GUILTY BY A WITCHHUNT SOCIETY, & THERE IS MORE ADVERSE PRESS THAN A MURDER. I HAVE NOW SPENT IN EXCESS OF $50,000 ; MY BUSINESS HAS GONE TO HELL; I HAVE NO CHANCE OF SEEING MY STEP-DAUGHTER AGAIN; OUR FAMILIES HAVE BEEN TOTALLY SPLIT APART; WE'RE IN BANKRUPTCY; AND IN THESE KIND OF CASES THERE IS AN 86% CONVICTION RATE....THE HIGHEST OF ANY FELONY. WHAT'S WORSE, IN CALIFORNIA, THE VOTERS HAVE ELECTED TO ELIMINATE ANY RIGHTS GIVEN THAT ARE IN EXCESS OF THE ORIGINAL BARE CONSTITUTIONAL RIGHTS! MY ANSWER TO THE LADY WHO IS SO CRITICAL OF THIS WEBSITE IS SIMPLY THIS....THE FALSELY ACCUSED STAND SUCH A SMALL CHANCE OF BEING ACQUITTED, SO SMALL A CHANCE OF EVER BEING ALLOWED TO DEVELOP AN ADEQUATE DEFENSE, FACE SUCH EXTREME MONETARY, FAMILY, AND EMOTIONAL DESTRUCTION, HAVE TO CONTEND WITH A LEGAL SYSTEM THAT HAS SPECIALIZED UNITS SET UP EXPRESSLY TO PROSECUTE ANY ALLEGATION TO THE ENTH DEGREE, AND HAVE TO CONTEND WITH LAWS THAT REQUIRE NO SPECIFICITY, THAT EVERY PERSON WHO IS FALSELY ACCUSED DESERVES AND HAS A RIGHT TO THESE DATABASES SO THAT THERE IS AT LEAST SOME CHANCE THAT HE WON'T BE BULLDOZED OVER BY AN EXTREMELY UNFAIRLY WEIGHTED COURT AND CPS SYSTEM THAT ONLY SERVES TO DESTROY EVERY PERSON AND RELATIONSHIP IN THE FAMILY UNIT, WHILE CONTENDING THAT IT IS FOR THE PROTECTION OF THE CHILD THAT THESE INSTITUTIONS AND LAWS EXIST! THIS IS THE ULTIMATE ABSURDITY AND DISGRACE OF A LEGAL SYSTEM ALLOWED TO RUN RAMPANT. THE CONSTITUTION GRANTED US ALL EQUAL PROTECTION UNDER THE LAW AND THE RIGHT TO DUE PROCESS.....IN SO-FAR AS ALLEGATIONS OF CHILD SEXUAL ABUSE, THIS IS INDEED A SHAM. I WELCOME ANY COMMENTS FROM READERS AND ANY HELP YOU CAN OFFER ME ON MY PENDING CASE. YOU MAY PRINT THIS, PLEASE DO. COMMENTS CAN BE ADDRESSED TO EATSIRS@AOL.COM. THANKS, ANOTHER VICTIM OF A LEGAL SYSTEM GONE AMUK!! |
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